Imagination may be, but experience can’t be…..

Only two ideas can differentiate to arrive at the correct decision as there are always two aspects, characters, dimensions, faces. Wrong and right  are two concepts that depend upon one’s own thinking?

Small issues in life if taken as personal without visualizing the big issues having no relevancy with happily living but big issues in some cases making it difficult to compromise against the ego and misunderstanding when those become one’s driving force.

Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, it is always better to shift your energy to what you can create to rather help others. Our attitude is our choice and makes it sure that we are not pushed around by the fears in our minds. You have to come out of your comfort zone to grow and transform things to bring change to the system. So whatever choice you may make the expectations and opinions of other people do affect you. So, do choose them wisely.

I recollect an incident when about a decade back when a beautiful coupled arrived at my place to get advice. After about half-hour discussions, and exchange of views I presented them a book titled Mental Equipment for Married Life by P V Kanal, they agreed to live together, in spite of the fact that their issue was so multifaceted with no logics as compared to the privileges available with them to live a happy married life, on sharing the pluses and minuses of separation or entering into litigation by the virtue of my experiences.

Frankly speaking, the purpose of life is to live it and gaining experience to the utmost makes your mind enlightened, repeat once enlightened, cannot become dark.

Imagination may be wrong to differentiate between wrong or right but your experience cannot be because you have lived with it to arrive at the right conclusion. I always prefer to sit and discuss with the experienced persons to become more perfect to give the right advice at the right time.

No doubt, imagination is the highest kite that can fly and will take you everywhere, it is also the power to form a mental image of something but our existence is with the experience of others. So don’t just exist to live rather live to exist.