Don’t bother what others say about….!!!

Most of the times, we are worried as to what others will think about us. I
have repeated the following sentence a number of times. We live for
others, speak and write for others otherwise, there is no necessity to live,
speak and write.
Even we dress in the best costume not for us but for others because it has
become a ritual not to roam naked. It is thus crystal clear that all the
time we bother for others not for us.
I have seen when something happens to you and you are physically
disfigured and when are used to it, you don’t bother about your outlook
for others.
The old-timers are least bothered about the happenings around them as
compared to the young generation, who have vested interests in power,
accumulating money, status-conscious and appearances too.
The elders, who have enjoyed the blues of their life and now enjoying
the bonus period, don’t hesitate to tell the truth without fear of losing
anything. We can learn a lot from the young and the older.
Even in my late 70s, I am very particular about the dress codes
especially the color combinations.
Dating back to thousands of years to the ancient cultures of Egypt, China
and India, there is evidence that color therapy is a complementary
therapy. Each seven spectrum colors – red, orange, yellow, green, blue,
indigo and violet – has its own particular wavelength and get-up-andgo.
It is also said that every cell in our body needs light energy and thus
color energy has widespread effects on the whole body.
I recollect an incident when I was to go out with someone to attend the
elder’s party but could not decide as to which dress I should wear. I
don’t know as to why I am allergic to brown color but that day I was not
having any pressed my blue color shirt. My friend kept waiting for
another ten minutes when I interfered as to what is the problem in
dressing and moving as we are already getting late.
I was reminded of two sentences that look similar to each other at a
glance – there is no need to show where people know you and there is
also no need to show where people don’t know you – but have a
different meaning giving a clear the message that writing on the wall is
very clear.
Without waiting for a fraction of the second, I got up and put on the
brown color shirt and left with him. I was surprised to get comments
from each one known to me who used to remark about my favorite
choice of blue color – that you look smarter in brown color too.
Frankly speaking, no complementary therapy – as in the case of color
choice for wearing clothes should be considered as an alternative to
professional medical advice. It is safe to use alone or alongside any other
therapy.
Really, wearing a brown color shirt on one day was a turning point for
me to switch over to any color with a clear concept that we should not
bother about what others’ say on how we look to them and live our lives
freely